THis is what I did...... Took it to best buy, talked to the guys for awhile, talked em into using a regular harness, not the $120 one, but a $25 one, they hooked it up and its covered for like 5 years warantee on the install and since I bought my HU there I got the replacement plan on that. Picked the car up about an hour later everything is fine. the only thing missing is the auto shut off when the driver door opens. I can live without that, they even dropped the wires for the amp, so I didn't have to pull it back out later to hook that up. whole install for the head unit alone was like $120, with amp wire drop, amp wires, harness, and dash kit. and its waranteed, Very worth it to me.
They tried given me that crap about the high priced harness, I wasn't going for it.